从破碎变勇敢 From Broken to Brave

in Support of Support Women and Children Domestic Violence Survivors To Be BRAVE

by David Wong


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大家好!我是建文,目前在一间非营利机构SOLS Health担任一名临床心理治疗师。这是我踏入心理学的第十年。在这十年的过程中,我很感恩能见证到许多生命从破碎变得勇敢。其中,我记得一个被亲身爸爸性侵的小孩。在其他小孩与爸爸玩耍嬉闹的年纪,他却经历了惨痛的经历,被爸爸带进房间里进行口交。由于过去性侵的经历,他在学校的举止变得奇怪。他会偷看别人的下体,他也会容易动怒,学业成绩也极不理想。我每一次与他的接触,就好像在跟一个巨人摔跤一样。他有时会很喜欢我,有时却会大骂我,甚至想出手攻击我。这些举止都反映着他内心的破碎,而我每一个跟他的接触都是与他建立健康关系的机会。跟他接触了八个月,他学会了尊敬我们彼此间的关系,也找到了一个安全的避风港。虽然他在学校的进步没有很显然,但他在慢慢地建立勇气。我学习到的是,从破碎到勇敢不是一瞬间,它是一个过程。
这一两年来,我有机会去到低收入家庭与他们进行家庭关系建立的工作坊。当我看到一个个原本很有威严的爸妈和很有性格的年轻人开始互相坦诚起来,抱在一起哭的时候,我很肯定地告诉自己说,我没选错帮助人从破碎变得勇敢的这一条路。这个破碎变勇敢的过程不容易,而家庭扮演了一个很重要的角色。
最近,我很荣幸有机会成为帮助“家庭暴力受害者”的一份子。单单在马来西亚,就有很多的家庭都是破碎的。根据统计,十个孩子当中就有四个是家庭暴力的受害者。他们可能像我提到的个案一样曾经被性侵、被虐待或是被抛弃。我希望我们可以进入到这些破碎的家庭中,提供他们需要的心理治疗。这个漫长的修复过程需要的是一笔庞大的资金,而我现在需要的,正是你的帮助。
一个破碎的家,难不成就不能好好地装饰它,让它变得美丽吗?如果你愿意的话,请允许这些家庭变得更美丽、变得更勇敢。你的一点点捐款,可以成就积少成多的力量,可以给予他们建立勇气的机会。
 
你愿意帮助他们变得勇敢吗?谢谢你!

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Hello everyone! My name is David and I am currently working as a clinical psychologist in a non-profit organization named SOLS Health. This is my tenth year in Psychology. In the course of this decade, I am grateful to witness that many lives have transformed from broken to brave. Among them, I remember a child who was sexually abused by his own father. At the age when other children were playing with their fathers, he experienced painful moments of being brought by his father into a room for oral sex. His behavior at school became strange due to sexual abuse. He peeked into other people's private body parts. He was also prone to anger and his academic performance was extremely unsatisfactory. My every encounter with him was like wrestling with a giant. Sometimes, he likes me very much. Other times, he scolds me and even wants to attack me. These behaviors reflect his brokenness and every contact that I made with him is an opportunity to establish a healthy relationship. After eight months of contact with him, he learned to respect our relationship and found a safe haven. Although his progress in school was not obvious, he is building up courage progressively. What I learned from this experience is that the transformation from broken to brave is not instantaneous. It is a process.
For the past two years, I had the opportunity to conduct workshops with low-income families to build their family relationships. When I saw many parents and youngsters, who initially held strongly to their grudge, eventually tore down their wall and starting to be vulnerable in front of another crying together, I told myself with certainty that I did not make a mistake in choosing a career pathway that transforms the broken to be brave. The process of transformation is not easy and the family plays a very important role in the process.
Recently, I am grateful to have the opportunity of taking part in the process to help the victims of domestic violence. Many families in Malaysia are broken. According to the statistics, four out of ten children are victims of domestic violence. They may have been sexually abused like the case of my client. They may have been physically abused or abandoned. I hope we can get into these broken families and provide them the psychotherapy that they need. This long process of healing requires huge monetary support and what I need now is your help.
Is it not possible to decorate a broken home making it beautiful? If you are willing, please allow these families to become more beautiful and braver. With a little donation, you can make a mickle and give the families a chance to build courage.
 
Could you help them to be BRAVE? Thank you!

Note: Please be informed that the tax exemption will only be provided to Malaysians who donated RM50 and above upon request.


MYR 3,005.55

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MYR 106.50

15/05/2020
Anonymous Donor
All the best, David!

Amount Donated

MYR 53.25

07/03/2020
Anonymous Donor
Well done Kin Woon, I am so proud of you. Keep up the good work. You are an angel!

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MYR 50.00

06/03/2020
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Amount Donated

MYR 106.50

04/03/2020
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MYR 106.50

03/03/2020
Cheah Suat Meei
Helps those who are under privileged.

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